Wait for that trainwreck, with someone who will listen.

Not everyone can admit when they are upset, hurt, depressed, or just .. not happy. Sometimes, they are even afraid to tell the person they love the most. That could be, your parent/guardians, your bestfriend, your brother/sister, your boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. Your afraid of their reaction; will they reach out and help you, or will they be afraid of how your feeling and run away from you? Either one can be scary though, sometimes you want them to run away because you've been dealing with it by yourself for so long, and you don't know how to deal with someone knowing and helping you out. But from experience, you can only tell people you truly trust not to go around telling the world how you're feeling about yourself or judge you. You also want to make it clear that you don't want any special treatment, your still the same person, you just feel down sometimes. Being treated differently or as if your fragile to the world or to any type of negativity will just make you lose more of your strength. If your on the road to a trainwreck, don't go to someone you think that will push you closer to the sound of the train, you want someone who will listen for the train, and get you away as it gets louder.

Imperfection, is perfection.
xo

Friends are all you need. - True or False?

I have an issue, that pretty much runs in my family. I hate being alone. I need someone to hug, to kiss, to text to say good night to, someone to say good morning to, someone to tell me I'm beautiful, someone that can show me how much I mean to them. But I keep hearing "Friends are all you need in life" Yeah, that may be true, and yeah my friends are always there for me, no matter what- ups or downs. They may not like certain decisions I make, but they are still there. So at times, I believe that, - Friends ARE all you need, but, for how long? How long until you miss having that ONE person, that everything feels different with? A relationship isn't something you NEED to get threw life, No. Friends are something to you NEED, well is helpful to help you get threw the ups and downs of life. Your relationships may come and go, but your friends will always be there, but those relationships that come and go, give your friends a reason to stay, and gives you guys stuff to talk about. To me, Friends arn't all you need. Their a bonus, and their something you need at ALL times, but their not ALL you need. 

Imperfection, is perfection.

xo